OK. Now folks know who you are, and like you. They’ve just posted something really relevant, or you’ve just written a post that replies to something they wrote.
Don’t send them an e-mail like this:
Dear,
Loved that post you just wrote! I wrote one on the same subject. Please link to me.
Or this:
Dear webmaster,
On http://www.site.com/blah/foo.html you mention our company, Foobar Inc, but you don't link to us. Please add a link...
These types of e-mails read like you’re sitting in Nigeria, sending out 5000 e-mails a day as part of an outsourced link building company. You’ll go straight into the trash can.
Instead, write something that makes them feel like you actually look at their site:
Everything about this e-mail says “I like your stuff. I want to help.” Note how the author started by saying “I have been a Flavorwire follower for quite some time and constantly on the lookout for something witty, wry and generally hip enough to make it on the feed.” That’s marketing 101: Make sure they know you’re on their side.
And, the author isn’t lying or deceiving. She said “One of my clients”. So Flavorpill knows we do have a bias here. And that’s OK.
Finally, look at the tone and style. It’s chatty, friendly and easy to read. It’s like the author is chatting with the reader at a party: “Oh, you’re looking for good content? I might have something…”
This e-mail worked, by the way.
I know what you’re about to say: “Oh, that’s Mel Gibson. Everyone wants stuff making fun of him, now.” OK, how about the 100th anniversary of the Recreational Vehicle (RV)?
Bingo. This one worked, too. Again, it’s chatty, it makes a connection and it doesn’t ram anything down the reader’s throat.
Write a great subject line!
This is, in a way, e-mail marketing. So you need to write a subject line that’ll get your message opened. If you put ‘link request’ in your subject line, chances are the e-mail will end up in the spam folder, never to be read.
Instead, target the subject. Examples might include:
“The 9 Circles of Mel: A new post you might like”
“New article: The 100th birthday of the RV”
“Response to your post about PageRank”
Get the idea? These all give the reader a reason to open them.
The checklist for an e-mail link request
Any request you send out should:
- Make a connection with the reader.
- Be addressed to a person, not ‘info’ or ‘webmaster’. Or use the examples above to avoid any specific address.
- Be brief.
- Be honest.
- Demonstrate you know their work.
Things you never do
Never, ever:
- Ask for specific link text, unless the writer responds and requests it.
- Send multiple e-mails requesting a link to the same post.
- Address an e-mail to ‘webmaster’.
- Use a subject line like ‘link request’.
Once the e-mail is sent
Make sure you record the date and the message sent under the contact. If you use a tool like Highrise, you can actually bcc a special address Highrise generates for you. That forwards a copy of the e-mail to Highrise, which stores it under that contact:
The tool doesn’t matter. Make sure you keep a running history of your interaction with each person. If you’re on a team, it helps prevent duplicate e-mails from different team members to the same blogger. If you’re working alone, it helps you continue a conversation without sounding awkward: “Oh, I forgot you said you were going on vacation. Sorry!”


